I have been reading this book which goes really in depth in the study of evangelicalism and sacramentalism. Apparently in recent years, some Evangelicals have made the transition to Catholicism or Orthodoxy. The author goes through many differences between Evangelicals and Catholicism in particular, such as praying to Mary, confessing to a person rather than God, and using text other than scripture as the word of God. When the author started talking about baptism, I got very interested. We have some friends who believe in infant baptism, some friends who believe you must be baptized to be saved, some friends who believe if they are baptized, their whole family is saved, and some that believe you do not need to be baptized to be saved, but you do it as an outward sign of your repentance and commitment to God (I personally believe in the last option). What follows is from the author, Matthew Ferris. Whatever your viewpoint, I think this is a good topic to discuss and think about. I think you should look over scripture for yourself and decide what you believe. I enjoy a good debate and I also enjoy hearing why others believe differently from me, so this interests me, and my intent is not to offend anyone in this discussion. (Please forgive any mis-types as I typed this in quite a hurry and don't have time to re-read it at the moment.)
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Excerpt from the book "Evangelicals Adrift" by Matthew Ferris.
In sacramentalist understanding, one enters the Church and is granted forgiveness of sins through the sacrament of baptism. The evangelical usually holds to a believer's baptism, or credo-baptism. One must profess faith in Christ to be a candidate for baptism. baptism presents a physical picture of the spiritual reality of death, burial, and resurrection with Jesus. "Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life." Romans 6:3-4. The picture of one going under the water accurately depicts death and the grace - our dying with Christ.
Thomas Schreiner notes, "It is striking that there is no sustained discussion of baptism in any of the epistles, presumably because the NT authors were writing to those who were already believers to whom the significance of baptism was explained upon their conversion. When Paul does refer to baptism, he assumes that all believers are baptized. Hence, we cannot deduce from the infrequent references to baptism that baptism was unimportant." The concept of an unbaptized Christian is simply foreign to the New Testament. The extent to which evangelicals have failed to call attention to the importance of baptism as something obedient Christians should do demonstrates their failure.
Within sacramentalism, the importance of baptism is stressed, albeit at times to an outsized proportion. Sacramentalism practices infant baptism as both an entrance rite into the new covenant with God and as that which cleanses from sin. Indeed, in this view one cannot be saved apart from baptism. "Through baptism we are freed from sin and reborn as sons of God; we become members of Christ, are incorporated into the Church and made sharers in her mission." (Catechism of the Catholic Church, p. 342). The sacramental view ascribes profound accomplishments to baptism: regeneration itself, and cleansing the baptized one from the stain of sin.
How did the sacramental church move away from believers' baptism in favor of infant baptism? In the New Testament, we meet with no certain evidence of infant baptism. In the book of Acts, where we find various instances of baptism, it is always upon belief. After Peter's Pentecost sermon, "So those who received his word were baptized, and there were added that day about three thousand souls." Acts 2:41. The Ethiopian eunuch, hearing Philip expound the gospel says, "See, here is
water; what doth hinder me to be baptized? And
Philip said, If thou believest with all thine heart, thou mayest. And
he answered and said, I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God." (Acts 8:36-37).
In Acts 10, Peter had been called to the house of Cornelius, a Roman centurion, who was a God-fearer, or a Gentile who attached himself to the Mosaic Law. After his gospel preaching, all who heard believed, causing Peter to ask, “Can anyone withhold water for baptizing these people, who have received the Holy Spirit just as we have?” And he commanded them to be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ. Then they asked him to remain for some days." Acts 10:47-48. Baptism obviously followed belief in both of these cases.
The Philippian jailer's conversion is sometimes cited as evidence of infant baptism, or of household baptism, but this can only be by inference: "And he took them the same hour of the night and washed their wounds; and he was baptized at once, he and all his family." Acts 16:33. Were there small children or infants in the family? It is conjecture to assume this, as nothing is stated in the text. In short, nothing in the New Testament demonstrates any evidence of infant baptism. Rather, baptism upon profession of faith is instead seen again and again.
New Testament scholar James D.G. Dunn comments, "It is one of the standing ironies of the diversity of Christian theology and practice that the chief means of accomplishing regeneration for so many centuries has had so little foothold in the New Testament, and has not clearly been encompassed even within the wide-ranging diversity of first-century Christian practice. For it has to be recognized that infant baptism can find no real support in the theology of baptism which any New Testament writer can be shown to espouse."
Tertullian favors a delay in baptism: "The delay of baptism is preferable; principally, however, in the case of little children." He goes on to indicate that it is better if those who come for baptism can themselves understand what they are entering into: "Let them 'come', then, while they are growing up; let them 'come' while they are learning, while they are learning whither to come, let them become Christians when they have become able to know Christ." Tertullian indicates an age of accountability, implying that it is better if people attain an age when they are themselves able to understand the faith.
The Augustinian concept of original sin dovetails with that of baptismal regeneration. If the stain of original sin is removed through baptism, as the Catechism notes, then it is evident why sacramentalism assigns such prominence to baptism. Stated differently, if baptism is absolutely necessary for salvation, then its importance becomes clear. A catena of scriptural references can be cited to show that salvation is conditioned upon faith in Jesus, rather than on an external act done on their behalf without their knowledge or consent, but evangelicals should know these. For an evangelical, moving to sacramentalism requires the paradigm shift in the basis of authority to accept the hierarchical church's redefinition of what baptism is, and what it imparts.
Does the New Testament teach that baptism is a requirement of salvation? Peter's plea to his hearers at Pentecost ends with the appeal, "And Peter said to them, “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit." (Acts 2:38). This passage is often cited as proof of the necessity of baptism. But Peter's insistence on repentance carries the implication of faith with it. To repent is to change one's mind, and the change of mind Peter pleads for is to believe that Jesus is the Messiah. Here baptism is in no way separated from faith, but accompanies it.
The other passage often brought forth is in 1 Peter 3:21 - Baptism, which corresponds to this, now saves you, not as a removal of dirt from the body but as an appeal to God for a good conscience, through the resurrection of Jesus Christ... Concerning this, Schreiner observes, "Peter immediately qualifies the statement that baptism saves. It does not save mechanically or externally as if there are magical properties in the water. Peter comments that the mere removal of dirt from the body does not bring salvation, demonstrating that the water itself does not save. Baptism is only saving if there is an appeal to God for a good conscience through the resurrection of Jesus Christ. The one receiving baptism also appeals to God for a good conscience, which means that he asks God to cleanse him of his sins on the basis of Christ's death and resurrection."
In Corinthians 1:17, Paul states, "For Christ did not send me to baptize but to preach the gospel, and not with words of eloquent wisdom, lest the cross of Christ be emptied of its power." If baptism were an act that imparted new life, why would Paul not seek to baptize infants and children at every opportunity? As he writes later, "I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some." 1 Corinthians 9:22.
On one side are those who insist, as sacramentalism does, that baptism is efficacious to save, to wash away sin, and to put one into the body of Christ. The fact that an infant cannot himself believe or exercise faith is entirely unimportant in this view. The parents are acting as proxies; their answers render as the infant's answer, their faith as the infant's faith. The practice that came to prevail of baptizing all infants led to a situation where faith is entirely unimportant; on the part of parents, or children, baptism was simply something one did as a member of a society dominated by the hierarchical church.
The deleterious effects of this are evident. It has emptied baptism of any of the meaning assigned to it in the New Testament. The identification with Christ in his death, burial, and resurrection is changed to a rite of initiation into the professing family of God. The looming question which sacramentalism must answer is this: If baptism is indeed effective in imparting new life, in washing away sin, in putting one into the church, how is it that so many people who have undergone infant baptism manifest no signs of divine life whatsoever? There are huge numbers of people who are considered part of the Roman Catholic Church or part of the Orthodox Church because they have undergone infant baptism, yet do not participate in the church or cannot be considered members of the church in any realistic way. The only conclusion is that the effectiveness of the sacrament has failed.
Infant baptism is not limited to sacramentalism. High church Protestantism kept the practice, though its ministers changed the underlying meaning somewhat. Adherents to this draw parallels with circumcision as a rite of initiation into the covenant. Calvin and other magisterial reformers were something in agreement with Catholics on the church as a visible society of the faithful. Infant baptism was the initiation into this christened society. When pressed to explain exactly what the significance of infant baptism is, Protestants who hold to infant baptism equate it with infant dedication. None of these Protestants would insist that it removes sin, or imparts the life of Christ, and so it has a very different meaning from what the sacramental church affirms.
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Monday, January 25, 2016
Thursday, February 2, 2012
God's Glory
This is for a friend of mine who is going through a really scary situation right now. Her faith in this situation has been nothing less than inspiring, but I read this chapter in a book yesterday and I want to share it in the hopes that it will encourage her and her family. This is from the book "It's Not About Me" by Max Lucado.
It billowed through the temple, leaving priests too stunned to minister.
When Ezekiel saw it, he had to bow.
It encircled the angels and starstruck the shepherds in the Bethlehem pasture.
Jesus radiates it.
John beheld it.
Christ will return enthroned by it.
Heaven will be illuminated by it.
It touches every person with the potential of changing every life. Including yours. One glimpse, one taste, one sampling, and your faith will never be the same.
Glory.
God's glory.
"Give unto the LORD, O ye mighty, give unto the LORD glory and strength. Give unto the LORD the glory due unto his name; worship the LORD in the beauty of holiness. The voice of the LORD is upon the waters: the God of glory thundereth: the LORD is upon many waters. The voice of the LORD is powerful; the voice of the LORD is full of majesty. The voice of the LORD breaketh the cedars; yea, the LORD breaketh the cedars of Lebanon. He maketh them also to skip like a calf; Lebanon and Sirion like a young unicorn. The voice of the LORD divideth the flames of fire. The voice of the LORD shaketh the wilderness; the LORD shaketh the wilderness of Kadesh. The voice of the LORD maketh the hinds to calve, and discovereth the forests: and in his temple doth every one speak of his glory." (Psalm 29:1-9)
When you think "God's glory," think "preeminence." And when you think "preeminence," think "priority." For God's glory is God's priority.
God's staff meetings, if he had them, would revolve around one question: "How can we reveal my glory today?"
God exists to showcase God.
Why do the heavens exist? "The heavens declare the glory of God" - Psalm 19:1
Why do people struggle? "And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me." - Psalm 50:15
Is this attitude self-centered? Is it self-promotion?
Picture this. You're floundering neck-deep in a dark, cold sea. Ship sinking. Life jacket deflating. Strength waning. Through the inky night comes the voice of a lifeboat pilot. But you cannot see him. What do you want the driver of the lifeboat to do?
Be quiet? Say nothing? Stealth his way through the drowning passengers? By no means! You need volume! Amp it up, buddy! You want him to show his glory. You need to hear him say, "I am here. I am strong. I have room for you. I can save you!" Drowning passengers want the pilot to reveal his preeminence.
Don't we want God to do the same? Look around. People thrash about in seas of guilt, anger, despair. Life isn't working. We are going down fast. But God can rescue us. And only one message matters. His! We need to see God's glory.
God has no ego problems. He does not want to reveal his glory for his good. We need to witness it for ours. We need a strong hand to pull us into a safe boat.
God awoke you and me this morning for one purpose: "Declare his glory among the heathen; his marvellous works among all nations." (1 Chronicles 16:24)
"For of him, and through him, and to him, are all things: to whom be glory for ever. Amen." Romans 11:36
Why does the earth spin? For him.
Why do you have talents and abilities? For him.
Why do you have money or poverty? For him.
Strength or struggles? For him.
Everything and everyone exists to reveal his glory.
Including you.
It billowed through the temple, leaving priests too stunned to minister.
When Ezekiel saw it, he had to bow.
It encircled the angels and starstruck the shepherds in the Bethlehem pasture.
Jesus radiates it.
John beheld it.
Christ will return enthroned by it.
Heaven will be illuminated by it.
It touches every person with the potential of changing every life. Including yours. One glimpse, one taste, one sampling, and your faith will never be the same.
Glory.
God's glory.
"Give unto the LORD, O ye mighty, give unto the LORD glory and strength. Give unto the LORD the glory due unto his name; worship the LORD in the beauty of holiness. The voice of the LORD is upon the waters: the God of glory thundereth: the LORD is upon many waters. The voice of the LORD is powerful; the voice of the LORD is full of majesty. The voice of the LORD breaketh the cedars; yea, the LORD breaketh the cedars of Lebanon. He maketh them also to skip like a calf; Lebanon and Sirion like a young unicorn. The voice of the LORD divideth the flames of fire. The voice of the LORD shaketh the wilderness; the LORD shaketh the wilderness of Kadesh. The voice of the LORD maketh the hinds to calve, and discovereth the forests: and in his temple doth every one speak of his glory." (Psalm 29:1-9)
When you think "God's glory," think "preeminence." And when you think "preeminence," think "priority." For God's glory is God's priority.
God's staff meetings, if he had them, would revolve around one question: "How can we reveal my glory today?"
God exists to showcase God.
Why do the heavens exist? "The heavens declare the glory of God" - Psalm 19:1
Why do people struggle? "And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me." - Psalm 50:15
Is this attitude self-centered? Is it self-promotion?
Picture this. You're floundering neck-deep in a dark, cold sea. Ship sinking. Life jacket deflating. Strength waning. Through the inky night comes the voice of a lifeboat pilot. But you cannot see him. What do you want the driver of the lifeboat to do?
Be quiet? Say nothing? Stealth his way through the drowning passengers? By no means! You need volume! Amp it up, buddy! You want him to show his glory. You need to hear him say, "I am here. I am strong. I have room for you. I can save you!" Drowning passengers want the pilot to reveal his preeminence.
Don't we want God to do the same? Look around. People thrash about in seas of guilt, anger, despair. Life isn't working. We are going down fast. But God can rescue us. And only one message matters. His! We need to see God's glory.
God has no ego problems. He does not want to reveal his glory for his good. We need to witness it for ours. We need a strong hand to pull us into a safe boat.
God awoke you and me this morning for one purpose: "Declare his glory among the heathen; his marvellous works among all nations." (1 Chronicles 16:24)
"For of him, and through him, and to him, are all things: to whom be glory for ever. Amen." Romans 11:36
Why does the earth spin? For him.
Why do you have talents and abilities? For him.
Why do you have money or poverty? For him.
Strength or struggles? For him.
Everything and everyone exists to reveal his glory.
Including you.
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Blessed
So, today I was going to Walgreens with one intention - get the RR from the Vicks deal. The only glitch is that I really needed four $2.00 coupons to use on the Day/Nyquil products. And the problem there is that since I only get one newspaper, I only had one of the $2.00 coupons from the latest P&G insert. I've been dumpster diving several times since then but never got another of that specific insert. I spent sooooo long going through the coupons I hadn't organized yet, double-checking them, and spreading my soon-to-expire coupons all over my dining room floor. Brianna loved that part. Finally, I gave up. I was irritated, practically sweating, and had messed up my entire kitchen and dining room just looking for coupons. It was at that point that I thought, "Good grief, do I have a problem???" I didn't really need the medicine, I was just getting it to stock up at a great price. I dug out my old $1.50 coupons. It was still going to be a good deal, after all, and I was starting to feel a little mentally insane.
Then I walked outside, still aggravated. I was going to check the mail.
And there it was.
A huge envelope from Tracey. And a stuffed envelope from Crystal. I knew then that I was an idiot.
Upon opening the envelopes of coupons from these two lovely ladies, I had three more $2.00 Vicks coupons - exactly the amount I had just spent all morning looking for. And I just stood at my kitchen counter, shaking my head.
Why do I constantly forget that God is in charge? Why do I constantly need reminders that He is over everything - including my grocery shopping? I can afford to stay at home with my incredible daughter because God has given me the gift of saving money (passed down from my mother). I completely believe that God throws coupons and good deals at me, He puts things on sale just when I've run out or absolutely need them. If that sounds ridiculous to you, then you don't understand God. Everyone's searching for miracles - miraculous healings, statues crying real blood, blah blah blah. We overlook miracles every single day because of looking for the big ones. It's a miracle that I'm able to buy enough groceries every month for my family and another family in Moore County. It's a miracle that the day after my husband runs out of coffee, the brand he uses goes on sale for half price.
God cares enough about us to provide for our needs - even if it is coffee!!
I've been down to one roll of toilet paper, wondering if I should just give in and buy some, and then the next thing I know I get a new coupon that matches up with a sale. Don't even tell me that's not God watching out for my household.
God is in the small stuff.
I hate the times when I realize how "human" my thinking is. I'm just glad God takes the time to remind us He cares, even when we've forgotten what He just did for us the day before. And I thank God for giving me the opportunity to laugh at myself. I just hope I won't forget this lesson by tomorrow.
By the way, I ended up giving away almost all of the items I got on that special. I really felt like it wasn't mine to keep. I knew there was someone else who needed a break as much or more than we did.
Then I walked outside, still aggravated. I was going to check the mail.
And there it was.
A huge envelope from Tracey. And a stuffed envelope from Crystal. I knew then that I was an idiot.
Upon opening the envelopes of coupons from these two lovely ladies, I had three more $2.00 Vicks coupons - exactly the amount I had just spent all morning looking for. And I just stood at my kitchen counter, shaking my head.
Why do I constantly forget that God is in charge? Why do I constantly need reminders that He is over everything - including my grocery shopping? I can afford to stay at home with my incredible daughter because God has given me the gift of saving money (passed down from my mother). I completely believe that God throws coupons and good deals at me, He puts things on sale just when I've run out or absolutely need them. If that sounds ridiculous to you, then you don't understand God. Everyone's searching for miracles - miraculous healings, statues crying real blood, blah blah blah. We overlook miracles every single day because of looking for the big ones. It's a miracle that I'm able to buy enough groceries every month for my family and another family in Moore County. It's a miracle that the day after my husband runs out of coffee, the brand he uses goes on sale for half price.
God cares enough about us to provide for our needs - even if it is coffee!!
I've been down to one roll of toilet paper, wondering if I should just give in and buy some, and then the next thing I know I get a new coupon that matches up with a sale. Don't even tell me that's not God watching out for my household.
God is in the small stuff.
I hate the times when I realize how "human" my thinking is. I'm just glad God takes the time to remind us He cares, even when we've forgotten what He just did for us the day before. And I thank God for giving me the opportunity to laugh at myself. I just hope I won't forget this lesson by tomorrow.
By the way, I ended up giving away almost all of the items I got on that special. I really felt like it wasn't mine to keep. I knew there was someone else who needed a break as much or more than we did.
Monday, December 14, 2009
Family Time!
Tonight was one of our family Christmas parties. Jenn and Matt graciously hosted and I had a fantastic time! It was Claire and Brianna's first Christmas party! Claire was so unimpressed that by 6:30 she was fast asleep. Brianna fought a good fight but as soon as we got home around 8:40 she went straight to bed without a bath or dinner. That sounds like a punishment but it's not.
Last Friday Gail stopped by to see us (I didn't get ONE picture!!) and got Brianna a precious ornament and a cute Christmas bib. If I ever get around to taking pictures of my new ornaments this year I will definitely post that.
Tonight Joy gave Brianna a Christmas present. She got a bracelet, a cute outfit, and a handprint ornament kit. I will post pictures of the handprint ornament when it's complete!
Dad pointed out that I gave mom something today. Ronzoni pasta has been on sale at Lowe's, and with the 75 cent coupon doubled it's free. Mom's coupon beeped when she tried using it, whereas I got lucky with cashiers and each one typed in the amount the coupon was supposed to ring up as. So when I got yet another free box today, I left it in mom's kitchen. I wondered how long it would take her to notice it.
I also had a funny experience in Lowe's Food today. They have some of the nicest employees. I was searching the juice aisle for the best price when one of the stockers said, "Can I help you find something?" They always ask that to be polite, so I just said, "No thanks!" and turned back to the juice. This guy, though, said, "Oh come on, let me help you!" I kind of laughed and said, "That's okay - I'm just comparing prices." Then he said, "Well if you won't let me help you, then why don't you help me!" He was unloading juice onto the shelves. I kind of looked at him for a few seconds, then I set down everything in my hands and I said, "Okay." He just looked back at me and said, "What?" I said, "Okay, I'll help you. What can I do?" He just laughed and said, "You're really gonna help me?" I was like, "Sure! Give me one of those!" He said, "Nah, actually I'm stopping now because the shelves are full. But you just made my day! God is going to bless you!" And I said, "He does bless me!" He got this big grin on his face and said, "Man, are you married?" I said, "Yes." He said, "Oh man, he is so lucky!" I said, "No, I'm the lucky one." He said, "No, he is the lucky one! Do you have any children?" And I said, "Yep, we have a baby!" He said, "Ohhhh man, you are blessed!" I was like, "Yeah, I know!!"
Anyway as he was walking off I said Merry Christmas to him and we actually had a whole other conversation about how commercialized Christmas has become. It was really funny. As he walked away he said, "Oh man, you just blessed my day!" It just made me laugh. I love things like that.
Isn't it said that I can think of a handful of Christians that don't even like the Christmas season? I bet everyone knows one person that begins to cringe on December 1. That is just so absolutely sad to me. Parties, presents, money, crowds, have all taken the meaning out of Christmas. If you're so busy during December that you dread it, and that you can't even enjoy Jesus' birthday, you need to step back and look at the things you're saying yes to in my opinion.
I love December and Christmas. I love that our families do parties but not presents. I love spending a week or more in Georgia with our family there. I love knowing that on December 24 you can find me behind the piano at Stephen's grandmother's, singing carols until my voice is gone. I love doing a Christmas cantata for church. (And you know what? If I'm too tired or busy to make it to a practice, I don't kill myself trying to make it. The show will go on without me.) I love watching the kids Christmas play at church even though my child isn't in it. I love caroling. This year instead of going caroling with the youth group (we're going bowling instead) we are visiting a friend in the hospital and singing whatever carols she wants to hear. She is like another grandmother to us and has been in the hospital since before Thanksgiving. Truthfully she will probably not come home from there. I had the idea to go sing carols to her because I know it would make her more happy than anything else we could do for her. I can't wait to see her face when we show up there Thursday night. Thursday afternoon I am taking a donated Christmas tree to the family we adopted for December through Fed By Faith. I can't wait to see the looks on their faces either. I love decorating for Christmas, even though this year it took six days instead of one. I love Christmas music - and around our house, that starts before Halloween. It's just so sad what people have made Christmas. I would rather spend the whole Christmas day with family and friends, eating, talking, singing, reading the Bible, than get any present you could offer me. I'd be willing to bet most people feel like that too.
I don't know what the point of that tangent was. I guess I just feel sorry for people who feel like Christmas is a burden. I know someone at church who was just talking about it yesterday, I guess it was on my brain.
I made wassail again this year, so there is the recipe if you want it. I guess I should also post that on my recipe blog. Okay, I'm done.
Last Friday Gail stopped by to see us (I didn't get ONE picture!!) and got Brianna a precious ornament and a cute Christmas bib. If I ever get around to taking pictures of my new ornaments this year I will definitely post that.
Tonight Joy gave Brianna a Christmas present. She got a bracelet, a cute outfit, and a handprint ornament kit. I will post pictures of the handprint ornament when it's complete!
Dad pointed out that I gave mom something today. Ronzoni pasta has been on sale at Lowe's, and with the 75 cent coupon doubled it's free. Mom's coupon beeped when she tried using it, whereas I got lucky with cashiers and each one typed in the amount the coupon was supposed to ring up as. So when I got yet another free box today, I left it in mom's kitchen. I wondered how long it would take her to notice it.
I also had a funny experience in Lowe's Food today. They have some of the nicest employees. I was searching the juice aisle for the best price when one of the stockers said, "Can I help you find something?" They always ask that to be polite, so I just said, "No thanks!" and turned back to the juice. This guy, though, said, "Oh come on, let me help you!" I kind of laughed and said, "That's okay - I'm just comparing prices." Then he said, "Well if you won't let me help you, then why don't you help me!" He was unloading juice onto the shelves. I kind of looked at him for a few seconds, then I set down everything in my hands and I said, "Okay." He just looked back at me and said, "What?" I said, "Okay, I'll help you. What can I do?" He just laughed and said, "You're really gonna help me?" I was like, "Sure! Give me one of those!" He said, "Nah, actually I'm stopping now because the shelves are full. But you just made my day! God is going to bless you!" And I said, "He does bless me!" He got this big grin on his face and said, "Man, are you married?" I said, "Yes." He said, "Oh man, he is so lucky!" I said, "No, I'm the lucky one." He said, "No, he is the lucky one! Do you have any children?" And I said, "Yep, we have a baby!" He said, "Ohhhh man, you are blessed!" I was like, "Yeah, I know!!"
Anyway as he was walking off I said Merry Christmas to him and we actually had a whole other conversation about how commercialized Christmas has become. It was really funny. As he walked away he said, "Oh man, you just blessed my day!" It just made me laugh. I love things like that.
Isn't it said that I can think of a handful of Christians that don't even like the Christmas season? I bet everyone knows one person that begins to cringe on December 1. That is just so absolutely sad to me. Parties, presents, money, crowds, have all taken the meaning out of Christmas. If you're so busy during December that you dread it, and that you can't even enjoy Jesus' birthday, you need to step back and look at the things you're saying yes to in my opinion.
I love December and Christmas. I love that our families do parties but not presents. I love spending a week or more in Georgia with our family there. I love knowing that on December 24 you can find me behind the piano at Stephen's grandmother's, singing carols until my voice is gone. I love doing a Christmas cantata for church. (And you know what? If I'm too tired or busy to make it to a practice, I don't kill myself trying to make it. The show will go on without me.) I love watching the kids Christmas play at church even though my child isn't in it. I love caroling. This year instead of going caroling with the youth group (we're going bowling instead) we are visiting a friend in the hospital and singing whatever carols she wants to hear. She is like another grandmother to us and has been in the hospital since before Thanksgiving. Truthfully she will probably not come home from there. I had the idea to go sing carols to her because I know it would make her more happy than anything else we could do for her. I can't wait to see her face when we show up there Thursday night. Thursday afternoon I am taking a donated Christmas tree to the family we adopted for December through Fed By Faith. I can't wait to see the looks on their faces either. I love decorating for Christmas, even though this year it took six days instead of one. I love Christmas music - and around our house, that starts before Halloween. It's just so sad what people have made Christmas. I would rather spend the whole Christmas day with family and friends, eating, talking, singing, reading the Bible, than get any present you could offer me. I'd be willing to bet most people feel like that too.
I don't know what the point of that tangent was. I guess I just feel sorry for people who feel like Christmas is a burden. I know someone at church who was just talking about it yesterday, I guess it was on my brain.
I made wassail again this year, so there is the recipe if you want it. I guess I should also post that on my recipe blog. Okay, I'm done.
Monday, August 17, 2009
What's Your S.T.O.R.Y.?
About 5% of the time, I decide that staying at home is not right for me. This is usually during one of those days where Brianna just refuses to be set down but screams bloody murder if someone other than me tries to hold her. Fortunately, those days are few and far between. The other 95% of the time includes days like today, where I just get to hold her and dance around the kitchen to Jack Johnson, cleaning out the refrigerator in between dips which make her laugh.
A while ago, I started reading a Max Lucado book called "Cure for the Common Life". I needed to read this book - I mean, whose life is more common than mine? One thing this book talks about it finding your S.T.O.R.Y. The gist is, God never called you to be anyone but you - not your parents, not your hero, not your older siblings. But he did call you to be the best you you can be. Finding your S.T.O.R.Y. is about finding out who you are at your best.
1. S - What are your strengths? - What do you have a knack for? Repairing? Creating? Organizing? Your strengths are things that seem so simple to you but are actually hard for other people to accomplish. Leila can walk into a room and envision new decor and a new design. And while she's talking it out, she'll say, "But it's not that hard!" But it's not that easy for everyone else. My friend Allison does the same with making jewelry. She designs it and then creates it - "and it's so easy!" But not for everyone. Find the certain things that come easy to you - those are your strengths.
2. T - What is your topic? - What kinds of things do you enjoy working with? People? Animals? Math? God gives us fascinations with certain things. What are you passionate about - what makes your pulse race? Dad is purely passionate about people. I would say that children are his passion - after all, he did teach for 33 years - but throw him into a nursing home, church, or other setting, and he's just as passionate.
3. O - What are your optimal conditions? - What factors trigger your motivation? Problems? Surprises? Paramedics may be motivated by a crisis setting and people in need. You may want so much structure that you are most comfortable in an assembly-line setting! Find the conditions you work best in and are happiest in.
4. R - What about relationships? - Think back to your moments of satisfaction and success. At those times, how were you relating to people? Some people want a team, while others function alone. Some prefer to be leaders while some are best at assisting. Know your ideal relationship setting. If you like to lead people and energize people, but you're working behind a computer all day long, your days will pass slowly and you may feel more down and less useful. Some of my favorite times of satisfaction have been working with the kids at Vacation Bible School at church, leading music. I am not a leader in my life usually, but somehow when it comes to that situation, I can take charge and feel totally in control. Also, I'm sure I work better with kids rather than adults - with kids you can just be crazy and silly and totally flexible, whereas adults just think too much - and get embarrassed way too easily about just letting go!
5. Y - Yes! - In the movie Chariots of Fire, Eric Liddell says, "God made me fast, and when I run, I feel his pleasure." When do you feel God's pleasure? When do you look up to heaven and say to yourself, "I was made to do this." At what point do your strengths, topic, optimal conditions and relationships converge to make you say, "Yes"!! When that happens, you're living out your S.T.O.R.Y.
Accept God's permission to be whom he made you to be. A frog can flap its legs and never fly. Maybe your heroes and mentors are birds and you just keep flapping your frog legs. You think you should fly and you feel guilty that you can't. It's okay to jump instead of flying. In fact, that's just what you were made for!
When it comes to being you, you were made for the part.
A while ago, I started reading a Max Lucado book called "Cure for the Common Life". I needed to read this book - I mean, whose life is more common than mine? One thing this book talks about it finding your S.T.O.R.Y. The gist is, God never called you to be anyone but you - not your parents, not your hero, not your older siblings. But he did call you to be the best you you can be. Finding your S.T.O.R.Y. is about finding out who you are at your best.
1. S - What are your strengths? - What do you have a knack for? Repairing? Creating? Organizing? Your strengths are things that seem so simple to you but are actually hard for other people to accomplish. Leila can walk into a room and envision new decor and a new design. And while she's talking it out, she'll say, "But it's not that hard!" But it's not that easy for everyone else. My friend Allison does the same with making jewelry. She designs it and then creates it - "and it's so easy!" But not for everyone. Find the certain things that come easy to you - those are your strengths.
2. T - What is your topic? - What kinds of things do you enjoy working with? People? Animals? Math? God gives us fascinations with certain things. What are you passionate about - what makes your pulse race? Dad is purely passionate about people. I would say that children are his passion - after all, he did teach for 33 years - but throw him into a nursing home, church, or other setting, and he's just as passionate.
3. O - What are your optimal conditions? - What factors trigger your motivation? Problems? Surprises? Paramedics may be motivated by a crisis setting and people in need. You may want so much structure that you are most comfortable in an assembly-line setting! Find the conditions you work best in and are happiest in.
4. R - What about relationships? - Think back to your moments of satisfaction and success. At those times, how were you relating to people? Some people want a team, while others function alone. Some prefer to be leaders while some are best at assisting. Know your ideal relationship setting. If you like to lead people and energize people, but you're working behind a computer all day long, your days will pass slowly and you may feel more down and less useful. Some of my favorite times of satisfaction have been working with the kids at Vacation Bible School at church, leading music. I am not a leader in my life usually, but somehow when it comes to that situation, I can take charge and feel totally in control. Also, I'm sure I work better with kids rather than adults - with kids you can just be crazy and silly and totally flexible, whereas adults just think too much - and get embarrassed way too easily about just letting go!
5. Y - Yes! - In the movie Chariots of Fire, Eric Liddell says, "God made me fast, and when I run, I feel his pleasure." When do you feel God's pleasure? When do you look up to heaven and say to yourself, "I was made to do this." At what point do your strengths, topic, optimal conditions and relationships converge to make you say, "Yes"!! When that happens, you're living out your S.T.O.R.Y.
Accept God's permission to be whom he made you to be. A frog can flap its legs and never fly. Maybe your heroes and mentors are birds and you just keep flapping your frog legs. You think you should fly and you feel guilty that you can't. It's okay to jump instead of flying. In fact, that's just what you were made for!
When it comes to being you, you were made for the part.
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