Monday, November 9, 2009

Community Service

A couple of years ago at a meeting of our ladies at church, our leader for that year asked us to fill out some worksheets. Included in the questions was one that I have thought about since then - "What is a vision you have for our ladies group or church?" My vision was for our church to create a food and clothing ministry. Many, many years ago, the church we went to for mission trips had a food and clothing ministry and on Wednesdays we would help volunteer there. It was amazing! This community is probably one of the poorest areas in West Virginia and yet somehow they always had a ton of food and clothing to donate. I don't think I really understood it then, but now I see that someone(s) made a lot of sacrifices to keep those ministries running as well as always have food and clothing available for people who were really in need.

Fast forward to a couple of months ago. I started really talking to my friend Cindy about some of her clients. She is a speech therapist and many of her clients live in the type of poverty that people seem to believe does not exist in our community. As I came across items that were free or cheap with coupons, or were given to me by others, I began just filling up bags and giving these things to her to give to clients. As I told mom about it, she began filling up bags as well. Tracey began sending me coupons (unknowingly contributing to these donations!). The more Cindy told me about these clients, and that many were crying upon receiving bags of items as "insignificant" as toothpaste, deodorant, pasta, cereal, etc., the more I wanted to do. Then one night I was talking to Stephen about one shampoo I had gotten for free. Pert Plus has a mail-in rebate right now where you will be refunded your entire purchase price when you purchase one bottle of shampoo. I just said to Stephen - imagine if every household in our church purchased one bottle of shampoo and donated it. No one would even have to pay for anything (except the stamp I guess), and we would be donating 80 or 90 bottles of shampoo throughout the community! To me, that is just insane! It's like it's just so simple!!

So I finally decided to do something about it. Last week I told our preacher and his wife that I want to start a ministry at church. The concept is simple. If I find out a way for people to get something free that is non-perishable, I will tell them. I'm thinking if I told our whole church about the Pert Plus deal, maybe 25% would go out and do it? Do you think that's a fair estimate? There's always going to be some elderly that don't even do their own shopping, some who forget to put it on their grocery list, some who don't believe it will actually work, etc. As for myself, I will get as many items as possible at events like triple coupons or other deals I find. For example, a few weeks ago Snuggle had out several $3 off coupons, and in most dollar stores that's exactly how much Snuggle costs! All of those went into donation bags. Other people who don't care to find good deals can buy an extra can of soup when they go to the grocery store and throw that in the donation pile. I figure pretty much everyone can afford to buy a can of soup or vegetables every so often (particularly when those things are almost always on sale for around 50 cents).

Every month we are going to pick a family to "adopt" for the whole month. All donations throughout the entire month will go to the family at the end of the month. I also am planning on adding up the amount of the items we are donating (approximately) so I can report to the church - hopefully so they will see how easy it is to do this and how much of a difference it will make. I have already gotten the okay from the higher-ups but tonight I am presenting it to the Ladies Group, in the hopes that the women who coupon will start to use coupons toward this ministry, and the ones who don't will give me their coupons so I can use them! Haha! Seriously, I am so excited about this and I am praying so hard that it will be HUGE and we can help so many people.

Here is an example. From the past couple of weeks these are just the items I have gotten for free from various stores and with various sales or coupons:


This is a total of items worth $66.97. And I didn't pay for a single one of these! That doesn't include the rest of the bags sitting in my laundry room now, and the most expensive thing in one of those bags was $0.74 I believe.

My theory is - if God is blessing you (and he is certainly blessing me!) then you should pool your resources to try to bless others. We are going to try to get that message across when giving our donations to people. Not just, "Here - we care about you and this is how we're showing it." But we want them to know we are able to do this only because of God and because we really want them to know God's love. These people probably do not feel loved by God. They probably feel that life sucks and is totally unfair. I want this to be the thing that gives them hope, helps them see that God is here and He does care about them, and I want them to feel loved by Him and others in the community.

And that's how Fed By Faith was started.

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Praising God for Salvation and Triple Coupons

What?? Don't tell me it's silly to praise God for triple coupons. That's one reason I'm able to spend so much time with my unique, beautiful baby! So don't tell me not to praise him for that!

On a more serious note, I am so excited! A coworker of Stephen's has been coming to our church recently and we have grown close in a short amount of time. He has been driving 50 minutes from his house to our church Sunday morning, night and Wednesday night. Now that's commitment!! This morning at church when our preacher did an altar call and asked if anyone felt that they needed to be saved, there was no hesitation as he stepped over me and practically ran toward Preacher Tony. He has been asking a lot of questions recently and I am so excited for the decision that he made this morning! He has a beautiful little boy, Emory, who is almost two and cracks me up. I hope they continue coming to church because I just like spending time with them. Unfortunately Stephen worked this morning and was not able to be at church. Fortunately, I was able to sit through the whole service and so I was able to hear the sermon that changed his life! It was like our preacher directed everything towards him. He said he had one sermon planned at 10:30am and at 11:10 began preaching something that he suddenly felt led to preach. That is awesome! God is still working!!

Meanwhile, I assured my friend Cindy who had nursery duty this morning that it did not bother me if Brianna cried the whole time. She has really got to have some more time apart from me eventually so that she doesn't scream with everyone except the few select people she has grown attached to. When I walked into nursery after church was over, Cindy's mom had Bri draped over her knees and she was doing just fine! Turns out that about 3 minutes after I left, Brianna had a massive poop!! The reason this is significant is she's only had about four human poops. So they are a huge endeavor for her! Luckily these lovely ladies knew to rub her stomach and try to soothe her, which is pretty much all you can do. Afterward she was exhausted but happy! She probably lost about 6 pounds in all. Anyway I'm really grateful they stuck it out with her - most nursery workers call me back to get her after about 10 minutes which is why I just try to sit with her in the service now. It's just easier.

Moving on.... to triple coupons! Today wasn't as great as other days but I did get a few more splurge items! This will be my last trip I believe, so I might as well splurge, right??

Hormel Meal Compleats
FP - $0.44.

Domino brown sugar (1-lb bag)
FP - $0.15.

Sunburst laundry detergent (78 oz) (splurge!)
RP $3.49. SP $3.19. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $1.69

Suave body wash (3) (splurge!)
RP $2.29. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $2.33 for two. Minus BOGO coupon. FP - $2.33 for three; $0.78 each.

Comet cleanser
FP - $0.14

King's Hawaiian Rolls

RP $2.49. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $0.24.

Pillsbury pizza crust
RP - $2.79. Minus $0.35 coupon tripled. FP - $1.74

Marie Callendar's Pasta Al Dente
RP $4.39. SP - $2.97. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $0.72. Plus there is a mail-in rebate on this so it will be free!

Tony's pizza
RP - $1.49. SP $1.17. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - Free

Tic Tac Chillers

FP - Free

Martha White muffin mix (2)
FP - Free

Jolly Time popcorn
FP - Free

Idahoan Pouch Potatoes
FP - Free

Progresso chicken broth
FP - Free

Uncle Ben's wild rice
RP $2.25. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - Free

Mentos gum
RP - $1.49. Minus $0.55 coupon tripled. FP - Free

Starkist tuna
FP - Free

Steamfresh frozen vegetables (5)
RP - $2.69 I think. SP - I had a raincheck for these to get each one for $1.00. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - All five for free! *Note - I should have only gotten three for free but a manager did an override on the system so I got all five at raincheck price minus the coupon! They are definitely not supposed to do that but I'm so glad she did!!

As I did the math on this I am pretty sure they did not enter my BOGO coupon for the Suave. I definitely spent more than I thought I was going to and if my math is right (which it's probably not) they did charge me for the one that was supposed to be free. All in all I spent $10.83 for groceries which should have cost me $48.91. This is about a 78% savings which isn't horrible but isn't as good as I could have done. The good thing is I don't really feed bad about spending that money because those body washes are going to a good cause.

And that is what I'll be blogging about tomorrow......

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Triples Round Four and Yard Sales

Today wasn't an awesome day at yard sales but it wasn't too bad either. Last week we went to one where the only thing we wanted was a potty for Brianna. It was $2 which I thought had to be a good price, and I figured we were going to need to get one eventually. The guy ended up talking to Stephen about being in the Air Force and in the end refused to let us pay for it. Thank you God for a free potty! Haha!!

This morning I got Stephen and I each two books for 25 cents each, 2 books for Brianna for 10 cents each, some pretty note cards for 50 cents and a shirt for 6-year old Brianna for 50 cents. What?? She's going to need clothes when she's a 6x!!

So... triple coupons round four. I'll only put all the pricing stuff for items I haven't yet blogged about, and then abbreviate for everything else. You'll see what I mean.

Tic Tac Chillers
RP $1.69. SP $1.49. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Mahatma rice (1 lb) (2)
FP - $0.37 each bag.

Jolly Time popcorn
RP $2.69. SP $1.34. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Idahoan pouch potatoes
RP $1.39. SP $0.88. Minus $0.40 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Hormel Meal Compleats
RP $2.69. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $0.44.

Special K chocolate pretzel bars
RP $3.29. SP $2.50. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $0.25.

Dole fruit in gel 4-pack (3 of these)
FP - Free

Progresso chicken broth

FP - Free

White House applesauce (2 24-oz jars)
FP - $0.38 per jar.

Domino brown sugar (1-lb bag)
RP $1.05. Minus $0.30 coupon tripled. FP - $0.15.

Domino brown sugar (1-lb bag)
RP $1.05. Minus $0.40 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Carnation evaporated milk (4 cans)

FP - Free

Campbell's soup (2)

RP $1.39. SP $0.70. Minus $0.40/2 coupon tripled. FP - $0.10 per can.

Wacky Mac
RP $1.59. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Argo corn starch
RP $1.49. SP $1.29. Minus $0.40 coupon tripled. FP - $0.09.

All in all I spent $2.93 for groceries which should have cost me $40.30. One of my best yet!

Friday, November 6, 2009

Triples Round Three

Today was a great day at Harris Teeter! They had restocked so I was able to pick up a lot of things I had missed out on previously. Here's today's rally:


Heinz ketchup (32 oz)
RP $2.79. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $0.54.

Heinz ketchup (14 oz)
RP $1.89. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Bisquick (40 oz)
RP $3.17. SP $2.99. Minus $0.60 coupon tripled. FP - $1.19.

Mahatma rice (1 lb)
RP $1.49. Minus $0.55 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Mahatma rice (1 lb)
RP $1.49. Minus $0.75/2 coupon tripled. FP - $0.37 each.

Minute Rice (14 oz)
RP $2.50. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $1.00.

Glass Plus
RP $2.79. SP $1.99. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $0.49.

Windex
RP $2.99. SP $1.99. Minus $0.55 coupon tripled. FP - $0.34.

Joy detergent
RP $1.39. SP $0.99. Minus $0.30 coupon tripled. FP - $0.09.

Dawn detergent
RP $2.99. SP $1.99. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $0.49.

Dole pineapple chunks
RP $1.59. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $0.09.

Dole fruit in gel 4-pack
RP $2.65. SP $2.00. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

French's Worcestershire sauce
RP $1.69. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $0.19.

White House applesauce (24 oz jars)
RP $1.79. SP $1.50. Minus $0.75/2 coupon tripled. FP - $0.38 each.

Domino brown sugar (1 lb)
RP $1.05. Minus $0.30 coupon tripled. FP - $0.15.

There were several other things I got but it was stuff I've already blogged about.

All in all, I spent $6.15 for groceries which should have cost me $46.27. About an 87% savings. Not bad!!

Cabinets

For a long time now we have been trying to find special hooks for our kitchen so I can hang up all of my measuring cups. Don't ask me why I have four sets up measuring cups. I just do. Trust me, I use them all!! I never had a good system for storing them, so I actually had them in Ziploc bags stuffed in a drawer in the kitchen. Not very pretty when you open the drawer up, but at least it was convenient. We searched everywhere for hooks - hardware stores, grocery stores, Walmart and yard sales. We never found anything that would work. This week as I was checking out the clearance rack at Lowe's Food, I found some el cheapo hooks that were on clearance for $0.88! I snagged those bad boys and raced home. YesterdayI cleared out on of my shelves and now am the proud owner of hanging measuring cups:


Hopefully they will be just as convenient but a little prettier. If they don't work, I'll tear them down (they're just sticky on the back) and I'll be out $0.88. I think I can handle that.

While on the subject of el cheapo stuff, the other day Tracey asked for the frugal stain remover I had talked about. Here's the recipe, direct from my mom, the Frugal Queen. The recipe calls for 1 cup of this stuff - she halves or quarters it based on stain size. I plan on using this soon and I'll let you know how it works! Mom vouches for it and that's good enough for me. Do note that you'll have to spend approximately $10 (shouldn't be any higher than that) for this recipe, but it should last a very long time with the amounts you're using.

Stain Remover:
1 cup powdered Cascade
1 cup Clorox II

Pour in Cascade and Clorox II to 5 gallons of the hottest water out of the faucet. Soak garment overnight and launder as usual.

Easy peasy!

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Triples Round Two

Today's run wasn't as good as yesterday, but as you'll see, I splurged on a couple of things. And I did remember my money today! Awesome!


Lysol Cling 2-in-1
RP $3.29. SP $2.00. Minus $0.75 coupon triple. FP - Free.

Joy dishwashing liquid
RP 1.39. Minus $0.30 coupon tripled. FP - $0.49.

Kellogg's Pop-Tarts
RP 2.19. Minus $0.55 coupon tripled. FP - $0.54.

Progresso chicken broth
RP $2.99. SP $1.50. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Yakisoba dinner
RP $1.29. SP $0.99. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Clorox toilet bowl cleaner
RP $2.29. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $0.79.

Glade air freshener
RP $1.49. SP $0.99. Minus $0.75/2 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Crisco olive oil (splurge!)
RP $5.99. SP $4.99. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $2.74.

Comet cleaner
RP $1.19. Minus $0.35 coupon tripled. FP - $0.14.

Karo corn syrup (splurge!)
RP $2.99. SP $2.19. Minus $0.40 coupon tripled. FP - $0.99.

Argo baking powder
RP $1.69. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $0.09.

Suave deodorant
RP $1.99. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $0.49.

Jimmy Dean D-Lights
RP $3.29. SP $1.99. Minus $0.55 coupon tripled. FP - $0.34.

Tyson chicken breast tenders (splurge!)
RP $4.39. SP $3.34. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $1.09.

Totino's pizza rolls
RP $2.29. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $0.79.

Tony's pizza
RP $1.49. SP $1.17. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Land of Lakes butter tub
RP $2.36. SP $1.50. Minus $0.40 coupon tripled. FP - $0.30.

Gerber 1st food 2-pack
RP $1.09. Minus $0.75/3 coupon tripled. FP - $0.34 each.

And I just realized I put Carnation milk in my buggy and didn't put the coupon with the other coupons! So I actually paid for those. Bah!! That's okay, they'll go into my donation pile.

So altogether I spent $13.35 for groceries which should have cost me $50.57. Savings of about 73%. Not too bad, but not my best. I'll try again another day!!

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Triples Round One

Boy, mom was in the right place at the right time this morning! For me, not for her. I pulled into Harris Teeter's parking lot and parked right next to her truck! Thought that was cool because we could say hello while we got great deals. We ended up checking out at the same time and THANK GOODNESS because I had forgotten one thing pretty much necessary to any shopping trip.... MONEY! My goodness. Mom had to pay for my groceries! So glad she was there to save me! Anyway, it was a pretty good run today. Hopefully those of you who haven't gone on a run can see from this list a few things you'll be able to get. RP = Regular Price. SP = Sale Price. FP = Final Price. This is what I got:

Heinz ketchup (14 oz)
RP $1.89. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Martha White muffin mix
RP $1.19 each. SP $1.19/2. Minus $0.55/2 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Betty Crocker pouch potatoes
RP $1.19. Minus $0.40 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Scrubbing Bubbles bathroom cleaner
RP $3.49. SP $2.50. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $0.25.

Mueller pasta (16 oz)
SP $1.00 each. Minus $0.55/2 coupon tripled. FP - $0.35 for two. ($0.18 each)

Viva paper towels (1 roll)
RP $2.49. Minus $0.85 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Fleischmann's Yeast
RP $0.99. Minus $0.40 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Carnation evaporated milk (1 12 oz and 1 5 oz)
RP $1.19 (12 oz) and $0.69 (5 oz). SP $1.00 (12 oz). Minus $0.50/2 coupon tripled. FP - $0.19 for two. ($0.10 each)

Harris Teeter sugar (5 lb)
RP $2.49. e-VIC price - $0.99.

Starkist Tuna (pouch)
RP $1.59. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Starkist Tuna (pouch)
RP $1.59. Minus $0.50 coupon tripled. FP - $0.09.

Bumblebee Tuna (pouch)
RP $1.29. SP $1.00. Minus $0.55 coupon tripled. FP - Free.

Suave lotion (18 oz)
RP $2.99. SP $2.49. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $0.24. (There is also a mail-in rebate that goes along with this, so technically it will be free.)

Suave deodorant
RP $2.49. Minus $0.75 coupon tripled. FP - $0.24.

Final Total:
Spent $4.28 on groceries that should have cost me $39.61. That's about an 89% savings. Not too bad!

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Life Update

Every so often I look through my camera and realize I have a month's worth of pictures I haven't uploaded. This is their story.

These pictures are from when Joy came to visit us a couple of weeks ago! Brianna became enthralled with Joy particularly at the end of the visit, when Joy began eating her feet. She would kiss on Bri's feet and after a second Bri would push her feet back in Joy's face. I told Joy to watch out - she could do that all night! It was really cute.



Nothing like sitting by a warm fire after your bath!



Brianna graduated from rice cereal to peas!



And then graduated to a high chair!



I was a princess for Halloween:


Stephen was a dad (how original) and Brianna just wore this cute outfit that mom got her from a yard sale:



Now we've moved on to... prunes!! Yes!



Brianna has done SO GOOD with eating solids. From day one she acted like she knew exactly what she was supposed to do. We are wondering what is going to be the food she dislikes. Maybe she'll be like her mommy and eat everything in sight! Anyway, she's always so cute when she eats. She makes lots of noises, sometimes spits, and is always eager for the next bite. This video is from yesterday when I was feeding her with one hand and recording with the other. That's why the video is a bit shaky and so is the feeding! Haha!

Monday, November 2, 2009

Morrow Mountain

On Friday, I invited myself and Brianna to go to Morrow Mountain with mom and dad. They go up a couple of times a year, particularly in the fall to look at the leaves changing color. One great thing about not working - we can take off whenever we want to!! The drive up was beautiful and so relaxing. It was a little misty on the drive, but not once we got to our destination.



Brianna's first trip to the mountains and first picnic!







While I fed Brianna, mom and dad hiked one of the trails. They came back and got us, surprising us with friends from home! See dad's blog to find out who it was!!




Then we all prepared for the next trail. Brianna loves this backpack that dad got from a yard sale.










Fresh mussels, anyone?


The trip was so much fun and it was really nice to take a day trip! Mom and dad were very gracious to let us go with them, particularly because Brianna cried until she fell asleep both there and back. She just wanted to see the leaves too!

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Rabbit Rabbit

I'm posting this in a hurry to get in my first post for NaBloPoMo (post every day for the month of November). I just got in a great nap and Brianna and Stephen are still asleep so this is my one opportunity.

I have to blog about our trip with mom and dad to Morrow Mountain! A blog with pictures is soon to come about that.

Last night was Brianna's first Fall Festival at church. She wasn't in costume, but did wear an orange outfit with a pumpkin on it that mom got at a yard sale. I, however, was a princess. I have pictures of that too!

And today one of Stephen's coworkers, Robert, and his son, Emory, drove from Fayetteville to come to church (they came to the festival last night too) and we ate out at Olive Garden after church. It was really good! Emory is going to be 2 in December and he's soooo cute.

So hopefully you will see a blog (albeit short at times!) every day of November from me. So keep checking back!